In order to successfully plan and execute an intervention, follow these ten steps.
Step 1: Reach Out for Help
Interventions run exclusively by friends and family members often don’t have the intended effect because they can turn into emotionally charged venting. The best first step is to reach out to a Certified Intervention Professional, social worker, or doctor who can serve as an objective mediator and guide during the intervention.
Step 2: Build a Team
Not just anyone should be allowed to take part in an intervention. Build a team that only includes close family members, friends, or coworkers who can productively add to the conversation. Individuals struggling with their own substance abuse issues should also be left out.
Step 3: Develop a Plan
After identifying who should be included in the conversation, set a specific date, time, and location for the intervention.
Step 4: Gather Information
Learn as much as you can about the addiction and the recovery process. If the intervention is successful and the individual agrees to treatment, have all the options outlined and researched, so you can seamlessly transition the conversation to talking about the next steps.
Step 5: Write It Out
In the middle of an intervention, people can forget what they wanted to say or say things they don’t mean. Writing out a personal impact statement can help keep the conversation focused, and it provides the intervention team an opportunity to reflect and share their experiences with others.
Step 6: Offer Help
Everyone on the intervention team should communicate how they plan to help the individual if they accept help.
Step 7: Establish Boundaries
If the person refuses help, it’s vital to establish predetermined boundaries about how relationships with friends and family must change. Everyone involved needs to commit to ending any enabling behaviors following an intervention and communicate consequences if the person refuses to change.
Step 8: Practice
To make sure everyone is prepared for the intervention ahead of time, it’s worth rehearsing what everyone plans to say at least once before it happens. Practicing will help with both the flow and focus of the intervention.
Step 9: Manage Expectations
The ideal outcome of an intervention is the individual acknowledging the impact their addiction has and accepting help. However, that doesn’t always happen. Ensure everyone on the intervention team is prepared for that possibility and have a backup plan just in case.
Step 10: Follow Through
Whether or not the individual accepts help, it’s critical to follow through. If they accept help, make sure they attend treatment and abide by the boundaries communicated during the intervention. If they don’t accept help, be certain everyone follows through on the consequences they established.